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The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

Author: Julie Sondra Decker
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What if you weren't sexually attracted to anyone? A growing number of people are identifying as asexual. They aren't sexually attracted to anyone, and they consider it a sexual orientation-like gay, straight, or bisexual. Asexuality is the invisible orientation. Most people believe that "everyone" wants sex, that "everyone" understands what it means to be attracted to other people, and that "everyone" wants to date and mate. But that's where asexual people are left out-they don't find other people sexually attractive, and if and when they say so, they are very rarely treated as though that's okay. When an asexual person comes out, alarming reactions regularly follow; loved ones fear that an asexual person is sick, or psychologically warped, or suffering from abuse. Critics confront asexual people with accusations of following a fad, hiding homosexuality, or making excuses for romantic failures. And all of this contributes to a discouraging master narrative: there is no such thing as "asexual." Being an asexual person is a lie or an illness, and it needs to be fixed.
In The Invisible Orientation, Julie Sondra Decker outlines what asexuality is, counters misconceptions, provides resources, and puts asexual people's experiences in context as they move through a very sexualized world. It includes information for asexual people to help understand their orientation and what it means for their relationships, as well as tips and facts for those who want to understand their asexual friends and loved ones.
"I'll admit it: I used to think asexuality was not real. I couldn't wrap my head around the concept--sex is a huge part of my life, so how could it be insignificant to someone else? Boy, was I ignorant! This book is a comprehensive learning tool for those who are asexual, as well as those who are asexual curious. Advocating respect, this rare and precious resource will open your eyes and set the record straight in a clear and straightforward manner. Prepare to have your mind blown!" --Kendra Holliday, creator of The Beautiful Kind blog "This book shines a much-needed light on an experience that's far more common than most people realize. Julie Decker brings together the many different voices and stories of asexual people, presents lots of valuable information, and offers helpful insight about how non-asexual people can be supportive. If you or someone you know is or might be asexual, read this book. And if you're a sexuality or relationship professional, read this book. Asexuality is part of the sexuality spectrum and you need The Invisible Orientation on your shelves." --Charlie Glickman, PhD, certified sexological bodyworker
Author description
Julie Sondra Decker has been writing about asexuality awareness since 1998 and has participated in articles for "Salon," the "Daily Beast, Marie Claire, " as well as other mainstream magazines and journals. Her Youtube video on asexuality has received more than 300,000 views, and she plays a primary role in the documentary "(A)sexual" by Arts Engine (rated over 40,000 times on Netflix). She is also a regular contributor to "Good Vibrations." She resides in Tampa, Florida.
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General Fields

  • : 9781631440021
  • : Carrel Books
  • : September 2014
  • : 229mm X 152mm
  • : United Kingdom
  • : September 2014
  • : books

Special Fields

  • : Hardback
  • : Julie Sondra Decker
  • : 306.76
  • : 224