A scorching collection of cartoons that is incisive, funny and fiercely feminist.
'Women, put down your never-ending to-do list and read this book cover to cover.'- Rebecca Huntley
'The gender wars of household chores' - The Guardian
'Funny and relevant, this is a book to slip on all your colleagues' desks.' - Elle
'Emma talks about the clitoris like nobody else.' - Huffington Post
'Her comics perfectly explain the mental load that women bear in the household' - Marie Claire
'Widely shared on the net, her comic strips echo the feeling of many women who are exhausted by the need to always think of everything' - L'Express
'The mental load. It's incessant, gnawing, exhausting and disproportionately falls to women.' - Leah Rupanner, ABC
'The mental load is the running commentary that plays in the minds of (mostly) women, of all the things that need doing that no one else sees but you.' - AV Williams, news.com.au
In her first book of comic strips, French artist Emma reflects on social and feminist issues by means of simple line drawings, dissecting the mental load, ie all that invisible and unpaid organizing, list-making and planning women do to manage their lives, and the lives of their family members. Most of us carry some form of mental load - about our work, household responsibilities, financial obligations and personal life; but what makes up that burden and how it's distributed within households and understood in offices is not always equal or fair.
In her strips Emma deals with themes ranging from maternity leave (it is not a vacation!), domestic violence, the clitoris, the violence of the medical world on women during childbirth, and other feminist issues, and she does so in a straightforward way that is both hilarious and deadly serious. If you're not laughing, you're probably crying in recognition. Emma's comics also address the everyday outrages and absurdities of immigrant rights, income equality, and police violence.
Emma is a 36-year-old computer technician who lives in Paris but who says she learns 'all over the place'. She works on podcasts for the radio station France Culture and her comics run in The Guardian. Emma's strips have a record of going viral. 'You Should've Asked' was viewed on blogs around the world, and an article about her in the French magazine L'Express drew 1.8 million views - a record since the site was created.